In re: Anna Holmes's piece about the double standard with regard to anger--that men are allowed to be angry, but women aren't...

I think that anger is most productive if it's a) correct and b) commensurate to the offense at hand. If any women reading this need some tips, I recommend this article from Rookie magazine.

You can also refer yourself to Downton Abbey for a primer from the people who mastered withering disapproval: